Through The Whole Man Method, I help ambitious men unlock their full potential—gaining clarity, confidence, and balance. My coaching guides entrepreneurial leaders to achieve success, fulfillment, and lasting impact in life, business, and beyond.
As I moved forward in both my career and personal life, success seemed to follow me, but it often felt empty. In real estate, I achieved more than I ever thought possible—selling countless homes, setting company records, and even becoming one of the top agents in the western United States. At one point, I even closed the deal on the most expensive home ever sold in Utah.
Yet, beneath those accomplishments, something was missing. I realized I had drifted away from the values that once grounded me. That disconnection led me into a period of deep self-reflection, where I was forced to face the shame that had quietly driven much of my ambition. It became a journey not just of achievement, but of rediscovering who I really was and learning how to live in alignment with my true self.
As time went on, I noticed a pattern—men around me kept asking the same thing: “How can I build friendships like yours?”
They weren’t just curious about my network; they were noticing the depth of my relationships, the way I was able to connect with people on a level that went beyond business cards or casual conversations. What they wanted was the kind of community where you do life together—where friends challenge you, support you, and help you grow into the best version of yourself.
That’s when I realized something important: I hadn’t just stumbled into this. I had been following a set of principles—a kind of formula—for building authentic, lasting connections. And I knew it was something worth sharing.
After years of searching and working closely with mentors like Tony Robbins and Ed Mylett, I came to a life-changing realization—I had been enough the entire time.
That breakthrough became the foundation for We Are The They—a men’s community built around three guiding principles: vulnerability, authenticity, and integrity.
From my own journey, I knew these weren’t just nice words; they were the keys to real and lasting transformation. Vulnerability creates the space for men to open up and truly grow. Authenticity fosters trust and deeper connection. And integrity anchors us, keeping us aligned with our values and commitments.
Through this brotherhood, I’ve been able to help men create powerful, genuine relationships, build unshakable confidence, and step into lives filled with purpose and passion.
As I began piecing my life back together, I discovered that real fulfillment and lasting success are rooted in three core principles: authenticity, vulnerability, and integrity. Looking back, I realized that every breakthrough I’ve experienced came when I was aligned with these values, and every challenge I faced could be traced to drifting away from one of them. These three principles have become the foundation of We Are The They—the pillars that guide everything we do as a community.
These three principles aren’t just abstract ideas—they’re practical tools I’ve personally applied to transform my life, as well as the lives of the men in our community. They also serve as the foundation for the 8-step framework we use to guide men toward becoming their most complete selves.